Last night’s post may have some of you thinking that I’m crazy. First I posted about how I think my boyfriend is done with our relationship. Then I posted about how amazing it is to have been together for a year. I’m not crazy, I promise. I’m also not in any sort of denial. I just wanted to take a moment to celebrate how much we have done together this past year.
We have actually had a pretty great week celebrating his birthday (many times over) and our anniversary.
It’s probably because I finally managed to find the courage to talk to J about a week ago. My next post will give you the honest details into that conversation. It’ll be a little backwards for you to read, but who cares. I’m sure you’ll work it all out just fine.
We are doing so much better. It’s amazing what that talk did for us even though it completely sucked to have. We are back to our pre-April happy relationship.
Things still aren’t perfect. We have A LOT of work to do, which you will soon see. There’s a chance that things won’t end up like I want them to. But as it stands today, I have my sweet, goofy boyfriend back.
I’m just glad you seem happier! Plus, who cares if you are crazy?! I certainly understand crazy!
I’m glad you can understand crazy. I just feel like people might think they know everything about me from one post. They don’t get to see everything that happens in between!
Hooray! It’s amazing what a little tough honest talk will do for clarity in a relationship. Soooo proud of your bravery!
Now enjoy your man!
Thank you! It really did take a lot of courage. It was a really tough talk, but I think it was definitely for the best!
Ha, you are so funny T. That’s the point of the blog, to vent anything you have to say. Relationships are almost never totally simple. There are ups and downs. And I for one, will love to read anything you have to get out.
Thanks for the support. You are so right, relationships are never simple. I’m learning to just put things out there without worrying so much about what other people think. It can be hard sometimes.
You’re only crazy for thinking you’re crazy!! Lol
I’m glad you guys talked. Soooo glad! Looking forward to hearing the details. Maybe it will help the rest of us.
Well I didn’t hold a whole lot back in my next few posts. It helped to get the details out especially when people don’t judge.
Who cares if people think I’m crazy anyway!
It’s not crazy! You needed to talk and relationships are dynamic, it’s normal to shift and change and want to discuss what’s going on. You wrote in your last post about the unease of bringing up difficult conversations but I think that’s just how things are sometimes, and when the sun comes out, clears away the cobwebs. It sounds like the two of you are back on track and I’m so happy.
I totally get that relationships shift and change…but sometimes I wish my emotions over them could just stay constant. Going through a little bit of a spell tonight. I’ll probably be fine tomorrow. The pitfalls of being a girl, I guess!